Month: May 2021

The Unmet Need

Oh, unmet needs! The kids that come into our homes most certainly come with these. We often have them. And these little suckers are what… well… often suck the life out of us, whether it is helping the children in our care heal from them or healing from our own. What is an unmet need? We as human beings have basic emotional needs. We need to feel safe. We need to feel belonging. Capable. Loved. A sense of control in our lives. Cared for. Pleasure. As though our physical needs will be met (food, shelter). Understood. While this is not

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6 Steps To Become a Foster Parent

The decision to become a foster parent is not to be taken lightly and the proceeding is difficult, but if you desire to be of help in the life of a child who may be experiencing the greatest difficulties in their young life you will not only be doing a great service to the child and their family but also to the community. Arizonans for Children report on their website that as of April 2021 there are over 13,400 children in foster care in the state of Arizona and as of December 2020 there were 1756 children in group homes.

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0 to 5 Years Old: Attachment & Foster Care

According to AZCourts.gov (2020), data shows that in 2020 there were 6,500 children under the age of 5 in the child welfare system. This means that very young children had been removed from their homes and placed in group homes (yes there are group homes for children five and under), foster homes, and kinship (some of which become foster homes) placements. Many of those children are removed due to neglect, and about 50% of them are reunified within 1-2 years. Some may find this data disheartening. What I see in these numbers is a great need for our community to

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Tapping Out

In the last episode of Alone, featured on Netflix, (WARNING: Spoiler alert) one of the characters who is a somewhat whimsical character says something to the nature of: I have asked a lot of my body and it has always delivered. Today is my birthday and the greatest gift I can give to myself is to honor all my body has given to me by going home and caring for it. To this she tapped out of the game. We ask so much of our minds and bodies each day. We pack our minds full of information. We pack our

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